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I agree that Ok Cupid is a stupid way to go, getting 1 reply to 20 messages doesn't teach you a fucking thing, at least in person a girl has to at least communicate a and you can get some idea of what you're doing wrong. I hoped it would get me over my fear of initiating communication, but its really been a worthless exercise so far.Of course, as unpleasant as the advice "Change everything about yourself and be someone else" may seem, its still probably better than that old bullshit "Be yourself" I've heard over the years.And also to not spam send out the same message to a hundred girls. But if you don't like it the way there is only one option. And that's the real key to good sex -- relax the fuck up and have fun doing it. You're both flopping your naughty bits in front of each other, and both of you are pretty hot about having those naughty bits flopping around. Grab and grope and lick and suck with great abandon, and without fear or limits. Third or fourth time, you'll both hit That Moment like a Boss, and it will be followed by the most fantastic breakfast ever, and you will suddenly realize, "Holy shit.Seriously, It may seem like "work, work." to write personalised messages to people you're interested in, But each of those girls you send a copy-paste to will just think you're some crazy possibly slightly dangerous person, because when you get tonnes of messages from men daily you eventually kinda understand what's real and what is just some bullshit copy paste. Only one, and unless you accept that you will fail over and over again, you will be unhappy for all your life: If you don't like the way things are - fight with all your power to change it. I'm not a virgin and I don't feel like a total asshole having got here," and you will look across that diner table over the omelet and hash browns and smile, and you will thank me and Prolapsed Pineal and send us a silent fist bump.I don't know, I guess the only thing to do is keep trying.Or kill myself, but I'm punting that until I'm 30, I figure 3 solid years of trying and failing is proof positive that things aren't going to work out.23, m, virgin, I don't think I'm that bad looking, but if I lost a little more weight I'd be just fine in the dating world, but I haven't really had any luck. Since both are free, there's no real obligation to seek out people. I can confirm that I deal with tons of email from tons of guys.I'd prefer to lose it to someone I can feel comfortable with, but if I can't get anywhere near the end of the year I'll probably hit up a site like Fling/AFF/craigslist and just get it over with so I start feeling a little more comfortable with sex in general. Here's a tip if you want to meet a woman..persistent if she's interested.
If you go to a nice club, with a haircut and clean clothes and approach a woman, she may have only been talked to by a few guys in the past hour. Use dating sites to practice having conversations, but its a sucker's game. Do you fall in love with a girl just because she occasionally helps you out? You fall in love because of looks and character and her behaviour and likely because of a well formed personality. Oh, you sent 70 applications and still no one took you? Go places that look interesting alone--become a regular, develop zones of comfort outside your work/school and your home.
No expectations...good grammar and full sentences go a long way. Many men put together a standard message and then send to every possible girl hoping to get a response. It's like sending out the same resume to every job you apply for regardless of what the job posting asks for.edit: When a girl says she's really not interested, don't bother being "persistent". Almost any major metropolitan area will favour Po F or Ok Cupid. And if you believe there is, if you believe you are entitled to something, to anything - then you are, plain and simple, an idiot. Do you believe that you deserve things to be better? Then, my friend, you need to learn that the world is not a good and gentle place. Do everything you can with your hands and your mouth to drive her over the top.
I always have a few guys contact me every day that I've already rejected..if she has expressed interest and she's just not taking the next step to meet up, then persistance with respect and patience goes a long way. Obviously you need to be respectful, understand sexual dynamics/game, but it's a lot simpler. But for those things that any person dreams of - a good partner, a nice place, a good job and a healthy social life, and for most other dreams that people might hold: You are not magically entitled to have it. Touch and lick and play with all the bits, eat her like a hungry puppy with a steak, work those nipples like you're trying to tune in the playoffs on a cheap radio in a canyon, make her beg for mercy, then don't stop.
I am one of the 2 women that are real and do meet up for sex with men.
She probably has about 10 guys she's thinking of meeting, but she'll want to meet the guy that wants her the most.
I'd say half of my partners, 4, have come from here and I used it for 6 months (then year break then used it about another year before stopping again)Is this for real? Your goal is to make her cum so hard that she forgets her own name.