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There’s the view, perhaps, they “might as well”, but given they’re up against men actually using charm to encourage a dick pic request, do they really think it’ll get them one straight back in return?
Susannah has some bad news: it’s not going to happen.
Emma has never forgotten a piece of advice a male colleague gave her: “He told me not to unless I want all of a guy’s mates to see it too.
We were in our twenties but it’s stuck with me.” Not everyone is bothered about their pics reading multiple eyes, however.
Marisa confesses she’s sent them since she was 17 – “Pretty grim thinking about it, but I fancied a boy and he asked for a picture and I wanted to impress him.”Amory, now in his late twenties, grew up with the internet and recalls being a horny 16-year-old in his bedroom with a tinge of regret: “I’m sure I sent loads of nudes, sometimes with my face in and often to people who in hindsight may not have been who they said they were.” Many people I spoke to about their nudes agreed featuring your face was a bad idea, unless in a long-term relationship or absolutely certain they wouldn’t be shared.
Luke tells me the dating app culture, and trying to make sure his nudes were as good as the competition, led to an eating disorder.
Special apps like Private Photo Vault, Best Secret and Secret Calculator (the icon looks like a calculator so snoopers are unlikely to click on it, unless they too have the app of course) can remove nudes from your main photo library and protect them behind a passcode.
The Guyliner spoke to men and women about when to send them, how to shoot them and how to keep yourself safe There’s no getting away from it, we’re a world of oversharers.It can build excitement and maintain intimacy, no matter how far apart you are says Tom, who’s been with his wife for 15 years: “It’s become our regular thing on a Friday afternoon.She’ll send me a down-the-top shot – or more if she’s at home that day – and I’ll nip to the loo and give her a quick peek.” Any colleagues of Tom needn’t be concerned – usually he’ll have a spare nude ready to go.“It’s a bit like in a gameshow when they wheel out the grand prize. ’”The rules around sending nudes seem fairly simple, but boundaries are overstepped constantly – usually by men.