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05-Jan-2020 10:49

So what happens when the quintessential party girl finds herself falling for a living, breathing grown-up? It's a fascinating-yet-terrifying experience that unexpectedly holds a mirror up to our reckless lives.As chronic avoiders, we're just not used to seeing things as they are.You begin to feel sweeps of insecurity, penetrating into the deepest part of your heart. And, more importantly, why do you still not know what it is?What the f*ck is wrong with you, and why is it that you've attended every cool party in lower Manhattan -- yet you've never even experienced even a mild taste of a healthy relationship?

Suddenly, you are shackled with the fear that you're really unhealthy -- I mean, how are you even alive? Real people have 401ks, and you STILL haven’t figured out what that is.adults wash their eye makeup off before bed, and you, party girl, just keep adding to it.You've either burned a bridge with a bartender, know too many questionable characters or have kissed too many of the people you will surely encounter (this is why I will never take a new date to the West Village). That moment when you're walking into a new bar with your new lover, and the bouncer stops to say "hi" and ask you "how you felt after last Saturday night."You look at him with big, crazy, vacant eyes and reply: "Uh, excuse me, kind sir, have we met...? When you're partying with your friends, you miss the stable, fulfilling conversations and civilized dinners you share with your hot grown-up lover -- yet when you're with them, it takes everything in you not to go into a serious state of FOMO.Maybe it's because you went so over the top with trying to look like an adult that it looks like a costume? If only they knew the real reason you won't accept their friend request.