You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed.
You need: A hairbrush, riding crop, or just his hands.
Why: There’s nothing wrong with indulging in some cheesy porn stereotypes. Why: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science, or rather, a routine.
"Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pre-game show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together. Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects—it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability.
This is an excellent time to try inserting a vibrator. Variation: If you have a favorite secluded spot, this is fun to do outdoors, even on your own patio.
As adulthood welcomes more people who hold onto pursuits earlier generations left behind in youth (video games, for example), dressing up for Halloween at an age many of our parents would've chuckled at doing so is now a thing. It appears the old advertising saying "sex sells" can be applied to Halloween costumes for adults.
Why: It can be incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.